Want to Seduce an Aquarius?

Want to Seduce an Aquarius?

by Brigid Bishop

One of the most difficult signs in the zodiac to seduce is the Aquarius.  Male or female, they see straight through any insincerity or falseness, so if you want to really win them over, you really need to want them in your life.

To seduce an Aquarian male, you must first of all learn what his primary interests are.  Being an Aquarius man, they will be many and varied and it will be difficult to feign an interest, so you will have to cultivate a knowledge of one or two of his primary focuses.  He will know everything there is to know about his passions, so we aren’t talking about doing a quick Wiccapedia read up on his topics of interest, we’re talking about some serious homework here.

Why?

Because nothing will capture the Aquarian male’s heart as quickly as connecting with his mind.  Engage him in a lengthy conversation on Hawkins’s “Brief History of Time” and you’re well on your way to being courted by an honest, loyal and idealistic man.

You have his attention.  Now what?

Although Aquarius is a masculine energy sign, of all the males in the zodiac, he is the one who can most easily switch back and forth between his masculine and feminine energies, so yes, you may initiate in the beginning without fear of emasculating him.  Aquarius is a fixed and masculine sign, but he has enough intellectual agility to understand a sincere invitation to connect without feeling threatened.

Aquarians of both sexes love surprises, so invite him somewhere that is different, off-beat, not the run of the mill dinner and drinks.  Think about a Star Trek Convention, the newest science fiction movie release, an X-Files Marathon, parachuting, parasailing, digging for clams, snowboarding, taking a tour of a local factory where they fry potato chips, anywhere where he can learn something new or be occupied with a fun activity and he will be sure to tag along.

To seduce an Aquarian woman, you must first learn what her primary interests are.  It is pretty much the same process as the Aquarian male seduction, but… you must be sincere and honest above and beyond the level you have ever been with any other female.

Show her your vulnerabilities, that you can tap into your feminine side and be sensitive while still being a big strong man.  Tell her about your childhood, your parents, your siblings, your first kiss, your first lover, she wants to know it all and she will never hold it against you.  The more she knows about you, the more she can trust you.  To the Aquarian woman knowledge is power, and if you open up to her in your entirety she will know that she will always be safe and secure with you.

Invite her out, but give her space when she needs it.

Take her on a picnic in the middle of a snow shower, with a nice blanket spread on the freshly covered ground, a bottle of wine and some snacks.  She’ll never forget it.  Take her to the top of the Empire State Building and remind her of “An Affair to Remember” and she will never forget your affair.  Romance is not squandered on the Aquarian female, it impresses her and makes her long for more.

Around The Wheel with Aquarius

Around The Wheel with Aquarius

(Compatibility Profiles)

by Brigid Bishop

Here are some basic “Rules of Thumb” for Aquarian Compatibility Profiles.  Of course, these are based on Sun Sign only, in order to truly plot compatibility it is best to have a professional compatibility profile done between the two charts, but this is a general description of the core energies to be expected.

Aquarius Male and Aries Female

This is a fairly good mix.  The Aquarian Male will enjoy the fire and spunk of the Aries Female.  Her independent streak and regal bearing will attract and fascinate him.  She will be his intellectual equal and quite possibly his physical superior, being more active and on the go than the Aquarian Man of ideas and ideals.  The trigger points usually stem from the Arian need to be more self centered and the Aquarian need to see the benefit to the larger picture.

Aquarius Female and Aries Male

This mix can be a bit more difficult than it’s reverse as the Aquarian Female will have a strong masculine energy which can cause the Arian Male to repel away a bit.  She likes his strength and generosity, but his tendency toward self-centeredness will be hard for her to understand.  He likes her detachment, it challenges him, but at the same time he longs to be the center of her universe, which she can never quite make happen, her universe is too multi-layered to have just one center.

Aquarius Male and Taurus Female

Both signs are “Fixed”, as in “unmovable”.  The sensuality of the Taurean Female will draw the Aquarian male, but her need for earthbound pleasures and belongings will not match well with his idealism and daydreaming.  She will appear to him as materialistic and he will appear to her as “flighty”.  Sexual chemistry may be very strong, but without other positive aspects in the charts, the pairing is difficult at best.

Aquarius Female and Taurus Male

His “bull in the china shop” approach to life will be appealing to her at first, as it is so different from her own delicate and airy approach, it makes her feel more feminine to be around him, but when her independent side rears it’s pretty head, sparks can fly.  The sexual chemistry here may be strong, but long term compatibility may be difficult without softer, more positive aspects within the charts.  Both are fixed signs and need to be in control.

Aquarius Male and Gemini Female

A good pairing!  Their high intellects are finely matched, they communicate together very well.  The Aquarian Male’s philosophical approach to life matches well with the Gemini Female’s need to analyze life from polar opposite angles.  Discussions between these two can lead to many late night conjuring and projections that will keep both engaged and interested in each other.

Aquarius Female and Gemini Male

A positive match but the danger here is that there may be a little too much air swirling around between them, living in the realm of ideas and thoughts, rather than putting their words into action.  As they are both idea people, unless one of the personalities brings some fire (for action) and water (for emotion) into the mix, they may just drift endlessly in their own little fantasy world.

Aquarius Male and Cancer Female

This is a difficult match without other positive aspects in the two charts, the Aquarian Male is all air and the Cancer Female is the most watery sign of the zodiac.  When you mix air and water you get a kind of “mist” dampening the positive energy between the two, which is why more elemental factors like fire are needed to turn the mist into steam.  The Cancer Female is very emotional.  The Aquarian Male is not.  They will have a difficult time understanding each other.  The independent Aquarian man will not like having the Cancer Crab’s claws locked into him.  He will feel like she is trying to pull him under the surface of the ocean and will struggle to break free.  The Cancer woman will lose the claw before she lets go.

Aquarius Female and Cancer Male

A better mix than the reverse genders, the biological energies are a little more suited to survival of the relationship here than the opposite mix.  The Aquarian Female will feel loved and cared for, and although she may not know how to “intellectualize” his actions to understand them, they will make her feel good.  Her independent streak will still create a struggle from time to time, but men being more outwardly focused can balance it to the point that they can cope if the love is truly there.  The Cancer Male will find her truly fascinating and will learn to hold on loosely for the benefit of the relationship if other aspects are positive.

Aquarius Male and Leo Female

Opposites do attract at times, and when these two are well-balanced this pairing can be extremely complimentary to each other.  The Aquarian Male loves her energy, her strength, her loyalty and the Leo Female loves his intelligence, his independence and his loyalty.  These two can literally conquer worlds together and learn much from each other, it’s all about balance.

Aquarius Female and Leo Male

Here we truly have polar opposites, but opposites create and encourage balance.  He is strong where she is weak.  She is clear-sighted when his vision blurs.  They will encourage each other to reach their goals and feed each other’s ambitions.  These two truly have the energy to become a real “power couple”.

Aquarius Male and Virgo Female

This pairing is one of those that is “all or nothing”.  The Mercurial intellect of the Virgo Woman will be extremely appealing to the Aquarian Male, creating fertile ground for clear and productive communication.  The Virgo Female may be a little too “earth-bound” for the Aquarius Male’s imaginative wanderings unless other aspects are positive.

Aquarius Female and Virgo Male

She may find him too rigid.  He may find her to flighty.  Communication can be excellent between these two, but often times they take opposing points of view and expend all of their energy trying to convince each other to switch sides, so to speak.  Without other positive aspects in the charts, this is a difficult pairing.

Aquarius Male and Libra Female

This is a very promising combination.  The Libra Woman’s need to weigh things out and consider situations from all angles is a wonderful sounding board for all of the imaginative Aquarian Male’s ideas and personal philosophies.  There exists a strong chemical attraction between these two that can actually make the independent Aquarian want to settle down and enjoy the beauty of life with his beautiful Libran Woman.

Aquarius Female and Libra Male

This pairing is a set up for best friends and life partners if ever there was one.  The Libra Male is perfectly capable of enduring the Aquarian Females need to wander and explore many different facets of life without becoming insecure or controlling.  The independent Aquarian Woman appreciates this and is more than happy to invite him along on her journey and share all that life has to offer with him.

Aquarius Male and Scorpio Female

Although traditionally astrologers state that this is a difficult pairing, in my experience and observations I find this to be quite the opposite.  The Aquarian Male is not usually thought of as a very sexual sign, but when paired with a Scorpio Woman this changes into heat and intensity.  Sexual experimentation and a drive to please each other physically can create a strong chemical bond between these two that is nearly unbreakable.

Aquarius Female and Scorpio Male

Tradition may state that this is not a grand pairing, but the inventiveness and imagination of the Aquarian Woman will keep the Scorpio Male more fascinated and intrigued than with any other woman in the zodiac.  The Scorpion feels that each time he takes her into his arms he is holding a different woman because she uses that imagination to keep that spark eternally burning.  This is a very sexually charged pairing.

Aquarius Male and Sagittarius Female

This is truly a fun couple!  They can be open and honest and free with each other.  Neither the Aquarian Male nor the Sagittarian Female has much use for conventional relationships and love freedom while they value honesty.  This couple is quite capable of loving each other and the world outside simultaneously without experiencing difficulties with security, trust or possessiveness.  Talk about fun!  These two know how to have it!

Aquarius Female and Sagittarius Male

Travel around the world and then back again along the way all the while sharing secrets and opening their hearts to each other is what these two will do given the opportunity.  Bluntly honest to a fault between the two of them, yet ever trusting and loving.  These two will move through life having the grandest of times and even when outwardly appearing “settled” they will always roam together in their minds.

Aquarius Male and Capricorn Female

The Aquarian Male appreciates the Capricorn Females hard work and stabilizing force in his life.  The Capricorn Female can keep the Aquarian Male firmly planted on planet earth while he travels astrally and she supports his idealism, perhaps even envies it, but she will keep doing everything that she can to contribute to dreams and visions.  The Capricorn Female can motivate the Aquarian Male into being just a bit more down to earth in nature without creating any resentment or discord.

Aquarius Female and Capricorn Male

The Aquarian Female will feel like the Capricorn Male is trying to be her father figure, and just as she did with her biological father, she will rebel against him.  Although if other aspects in the charts are positive, the Capricorn Male may be able to lighten up as needed and just keep her stable, if they are not in existence the Aquarian Female will just disappear into another universe when he becomes too overbearing.

Aquarius Male and Aquarius Female

These two can be best friends, lovers, exes that get along and just about anything else you can imagine when it comes to relationships.  Both are flighty and need space, their relationships are likely to provide plenty of freedom, so much so that they both may find each other with different partners without even realizing it if they don’t pay attention, but there will never be any resentment or long-term anger if that happens as they truly know how to be “friends for life”.

Aquarius Male and Pisces Female

The Aquarian Male loves the fact that the Pisces Female can dream right along beside him and add to those dreams in her own sensitive and intuitive way.  He doesn’t feel the need for independence as strongly with this sign as he does with the others, as she and her dreamy ways bring him a sense of inner peace.  Someone has to remember to go to the grocery store here or you two might just dream away!!!  Wake up!!!

Aquarius Female and Pisces Male

The Aquarian Female will feel like the Pisces Male is a bit over-sensitive at times, and despite her own active imagination, she will want him to take his head out of the clouds and put those dreams to work!  If well aspected, she can be the “driver” in the relationship making for a great pair, but if other aspects do not encourage this, the Aquarian Female will move on to a more productive partner.

The Aquarius Personality Type

The Aquarius

The Aquarian personality type is one that I know very, very well.  Why? 

Because I am one.

It manifests differently in the male and female, but several key characteristics are common to Aquarians of both sexes.

They are independent, intellectual, intelligent, loyal, stubborn, gregarious, determined and at times, very absent-minded.

Aquarians are truly the types that have many acquaintances but few close, intimate friends.

When an Aquarian allows you to become intimately close with them through either friendship or romance, believe that you are very special to them.

Aquarians live more in the mind than in the heart.  Because Aquarians are of the element of air, they often have their head in the clouds, and what some may perceive as neglect or absence of interest is simply the Aquarian having a preoccupation with other thoughts at the time.  Their absent-minded professor intellects also add to the frustrations of more emotional types.  They honestly don’t believe that they are being inattentive to you when they get caught up in the daydreams and imaginations, they think that everyone’s mind wanders as theirs does and they feel the need for freedom more strongly than any other sign in the zodiac.

The Aquarian female is usually and customarily a masculine energy regardless of how feminine her appearance or her outward bearings are.  They are less emotional than any other female sign of the zodiac, they are the most analytic sign as well.

If you are in love with an Aquarian female watch out when she taps into her emotions because they can be very overwhelming to her, positive or negative, as they are not something she can intellectually scrutinize and digest, she must “feel” them, and that is difficult for the Aquarian woman.

If you want a successful relationship with an Aquarian lady then give her plenty of space and freedom, but keep in touch with her so that she doesn’t forget about you while she’s off chasing rainbows and unicorns.  Support her thoughts and ideas (she’ll have plenty of them to share), and you are well on your way to winning her true heart and friendship for life.

For an Aquarian male or female true love begins with being best friends.  If you always remember to be a true friend to an Aquarian, you will always have a true friend, and if you are lucky enough to become their best friend, then you are the love of their life.

FAMOUS AQUARIAN WOMEN

Brigid Bishop, (lol), Jennifer Aniston, Zsa Zsa Gabor, Oprah Winfrey, Carmen Miranda, Angela Davis, Mia Farrow, Eartha Kit, Ida Lupino, Gertrude Stein, Natalie Cole, Kim Novak, Nastassja Kinski, Princess Caroline, Geena Davis, Jayne Seymour, Judy Blume, Alice Walker

The Aquarian male does not require a lot of maintenance.

Dating him can be quite an experience.  Aquarians love change and sudden and impulsive “fun”!

One night your Aquarian male may take you to the opera, and the next to a clam bake on the beach with his “hippie” friends.  He will be just as comfortable in his tuxedo as he will barefoot and bohemian and hedonistic.

Aquarian males need a lot of space.

This doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care for you, he just needs the time to investigate and explore on his own.  When he finds places and people of true interest, he will be more than happy to introduce you to them, but he does need that independence to go out on his own.

A clingy, needy woman will never win the heart of an Aquarian male.

While he is out spelunking with friends don’t worry, try a little adventure of your own, it will make him become fascinated with you if you have your own adventures to share with him.

The Aquarian male is not a master of romance, however, he knows how to figure out what makes you tick, and if he likes the rhythm of your internal mechanisms, he will apply his brilliant intellect to surprising you with just the right types of dates and gifts and mementos to make you wonder if he’s for real.

The down side of the Aquarian persona is that they are the type to get so wrapped up in projects, careers or hobbies that they do appear to be neglectful.  The easiest way to regain their interest if their pursuits are seemingly making them drift is to find an interest or hobby of your own that may fascinate them as well.

Freedom and friendship are the two key factors in having a successful relationship with any Aquarian.

If you want a lover that can truly be your best friend, enjoy riding a roller coaster as much as an eight year old, explain quantum physics and the theory of relativity to you in ten minutes, and live in the past, present and future with you simultaneously, then the Aquarius is for you!

If you have a question on the Aquarian personality type, please post it here and I will be happy to help you with it!

 

FAMOUS AQUARIAN MEN

Bob Marley, Paul Newman, John Travolta, Rick James, Edward Van Halen, James Dean, Arsenio Hall, Bobby Brown, Phil Collins, Yasir Arafat, Saul Williams,Tom Selleck, Robert Wagner, Burt Reynolds, James Dean, Neil Diamond, Mikhail Baryshnikov, Mozart, W.C. Fields, Abraham Lincoln, F.D. Roosevelt, Charles Dickens